Five Ways To Teach Your Kids About Giving


As the holidays approach it can be easy to get swept up in the gifts and happy chaos of the season. Children learn the receiving end young and it’s wonderful to hear their sheer delight as the rip open presents and ask for another candy cane. Yet teaching children about the giving side of the holidays can be a challenge in the busy days that fill December. I believe the best way to teach anything is through experiences. Here are FIVE ideas for things you can do with your kids to give to others. Whether giving to a neighbor, friend or stranger the feeling of helping others will be another gift you can give to your children.

ONE: Love Your Neighbor

Have your kids help you make cookies or a fruit basket and take it to a neighbor, maybe one you don’t know very well.  This is the perfect chance to show someone kindness and love.

TWO: Food For The Needy

Plan a shopping trip to the grocery store when you have little on your personal list. Let your kids carry a basket or push a little cart. Tell them to help choose healthy items to fill the basket/cart with.  Explain that you will drop them off a local food pantry after purchasing and it will go to people who are hungry and in need. Kids will love being in charge of the items and begin to see beyond themselves and their family. For older kids you can give them a spending limit and a calculator for an added lesson on budgeting.

THREE: Shovel Away

Perfect for older kids, tweens or teens. Encourage them to shovel a neighbors driveway at the next snow. I can remember one bitter cold winter day when I was home with a baby and a toddler and a kind neighbor shoveled for me….it meant the world to a sleep deprived mom! It may be a thankless job but I guarantee it will not go unappreciated.

FOUR: Christmas Card Time

Buy an extra box of holiday cards and have your children write in them or draw pictures. Wishing the recipient a happy holidays. You can donate the finished cards to a nursing home or senior living center. Most places gladly except cards to give to those who don’t receive cards. Many people in senior or nursing care no longer have close family members to send them holiday greetings. These cards will brighten their day!

FIVE: Animals Need Love Too

Even if you don’t have a pet pick up a container of cat or dog food to donate to the Humane Society. Your kids will love helping with this if it means getting to visit animals. Depending on the weather, many times they need volunteers to help walk dog or play with the cats too. Helping animals in need will be a wonderful experience for you and your kids.


*Local Resources:

Dane Co Humane Society

List of Local Nursing Homes/ Senior Living Homes

Tara is mom to two energetic daughters Bianca and Iyla. Passionate about inspiring others to cook healthy, delicious and allergy-friendly food, she owns Yummy Sprout, which provides healthy culinary adventures through classes and more. Check out Tara has been featured in the Wisconsin State Journal and on Channel 3 WISC-TV on topics including “making your own baby food”, “cooking with kids” and “packing healthy school lunches”. She adores living in Madison and all it has to offer family life. Her favorite ways to spend time include messing up her kitchen while recipe testing, running, yoga, writing, painting, traveling and reading books with her girls.


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